There is a very rightful level consideration, focus and emphasis on consent in BDSM practice. Peel the first pages of any guide to bondage, pain-play or power dynamics and chapter one, page one should hopefully push erotism to one side and immediately speak of the importance of negotiation and mutual consent.
Being as BDSM is so frequently requires control of one's behaviour and the practice of risky and highly technical practices, consent is not only an element of physical and psychological safety.
This article will turn away from the issues of negotiation as a matter of consent, but a matter of enhancing your experience and making sure you and your play partners desires are as richly explored as they can be! Technicality aside, there is so much self exploration and deep, powerful pleasures held in our kinky little world that can go un heeded with a number of pitfalls! Yours truly has definitely fallen into every pothole that lies along the road of naughtiness and while those mistakes are always learned from, there’s one thing that remains vitally apparent each time. That thing, is communication.