March 16, 2015

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Spice Things Up with Australia’s Finest Adult Online Store

It isn’t exactly a topic of conversation you hear every day, but here at Salon De Venus, we think it needs to be said; buying a sex toy might just redefine the things you do in the bedroom. In fact, research has shown that nearly half of Australian couples have already cottoned on to this notion and bought themselves an adult toy online or in store to play with in the bedroom. With a wide range of sex shops throughout Melbourne, Sydney and the rest of Australia, it can be hard to know where to start and what brands to trust for a truly good time. This is why we at Salon De Venus pay close attention to all the details and only stock the best of the best. When you shop our adult online store, you can be confident that you’re in for nothing less than the time of your life.

The rise of the vibrator

Buying an adult toy, such as a vibrator or dildo, can be incredibly beneficial to your sex life, whether that’s with a partner or simply all by yourself. It has been proven that people who use these items in the bedroom are more open and comfortable with their sexuality, an attitude that we are completely in favour of here at Salon De Venus. From luxury products that will get your heart racing to more affordable items that anyone can enjoy, our customers can buy adult toys in our online store easily and discreetly, with the added pleasure of having it shipped anywhere in Australia. Men and women all over the country enjoy our range of products every day, so whether you’re from Melbourne, Sydney or anywhere in between, take a look at our online store and see what tickles your fancy.

Tried and tested toys

What’s the point in your adult toy being shipped all the way to Melbourne or Perth if it’s only going to break as you really start to enjoy it? We would never want to disappoint our valued customers, which is why we make sure you only get the best of the best when it comes to sex toys. Each brand and product listed on our online Australian sex store is of extremely high quality and worth your money, as determined by our reviewers. It’s a tough job, but somebody has to do it for the good of the customer…

Make an order today

Our quality adult products are made to take your private time to the next level. Whether you’re in Melbourne, NSW or Queensland, we can guarantee that by the time the package gets to your door you’ll be dying to try it out.

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Mistress Jane's Beginners Guide To BDSM!

We here at Salon De Venus are in absolute awe of Mistress Jane, who's very kindly offered to write a very special Beginners Guide to BDSM for our loyal Pixie's Perspective Readers!

A BEGINNERS GUIDE TO BDSM - MISTRESS JANE PRESENTS...

There is a definite hype around this “BDSM” (that’s Bondage/Discipline, domination/Submission, Sadism/Masochism for you newbies) craze, I’m sure you have wondered how to ease yourselves into it with your partner if you haven’t tested the waters yet.

If you are worried that this may be a little too “out there” for him consider this:  A University study in the US found that dabbing in kink can provide a multitude of benefits. . “BDSM challenges couples to communicate better and to be more creative,” says Richard Sprott, Ph.D, coauthor of Sexual Outsiders: Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities. “You imagine new ways of finding pleasure with a partner.”

Another study has shown that people who are into kinkier sex could be psychologically healthier than those who are not -  people who were BDSM, had higher scores on certain indicators of mental health than those who do not like to bring spice into the bedroom.

Published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in May 2013,   the study assessed 902 people who partake in BDSM and 434 people who do not.  When participants were chosen, they were not told of the purpose of the study. Each candidate was given a questionnaire to fill out regarding their personalities, sensitivity, rejection, general well-being, and style of attachment in relationships.

So why not throw on some leather or PVC and enjoy the ride!

TEST THE WATERS!

You can’t just randomly show up in the bedroom with a ball gag and chains. Perhaps start with a discussion around the phenomenon created by Fifty Shades of Grey. You want to get a feeling of his attitude toward submission and dominance – whether the idea leaves him repulsed, indifferent, or intrigued. 

A good first step is with a ‘yes, no, maybe’ list. Treat it like a game, don’t just dive in. Establish the scope of activity your partner is up for, and select a “safe word” that will stop the action. Saying “no” or “stop” or “that hurts” isn’t recommended, since they can be part of the fantasy… opt for words that have zero sexual relevance.  A common option is the Green/Amber / Red combination – “Amber” meaning “you know what – im okay but Im not enjoying this and “red” meaning “Stop – game over, Im out”. “Green” of course means – “hells yeah – give me more!"

I'd recommend some of the following toys from Salon De Venus, a great place to start testing your BDSM fantasies!


The Lelo Etherea Silk Cuffs are soft, sexy and not-too-scary! Perfect for binding a pair of wrists or ankles for gentle and seductive play!
(http://www.salon-de-venus.com.au/collections/bondage/products/etherea-silk-cuffs)


To take things a little further, the Classic Pink Ball Gag from KinkLab is a comfortable and easy way to quieten your lover and let them know who's taking charge this time!
(http://www.salon-de-venus.com.au/collections/bondage/products/classic-pink-ball-gag)

GIVE HIM  A TICKLE!

If you have ever massaged, bitten, or scratched your partner, you have already crossed waters to the basic type of kink, “sensation play”. This generates a biochemical chain reaction, which creates a state similar to the glow of orgasm.  Start with some kind of blindfold, which can help you embrace the submissive role, as well as heighten each of his other senses – hence the term “sensation play”. 

After you plunge him into darkness, graze your fingers or a feather over his inner thighs, the nape of his neck, and the inner part of his forearms,  Take 15 or 20 second breaks in between touching her to make him anticipate where the next sensation will take place. From feathers to can graduate to an endless list of both specialized and everyday items to create new sensations – think ice cubes, make up brushes or even a hair brush.



Salon De Venus has a lovely little tickler, the Tickle Me from Bijoux Indescrets which is perfect to indulge in some sensation play!
(http://www.salon-de-venus.com.au/collections/bondage/products/tickle-me)


Team it with the oh-so-soft, designer glamour inspired Ebony Blindfold from S(A)X Femme and you have sensation play that'll make the neighbours jealous... And it comes in Ivory and Scarlet shades too!
(http://www.salon-de-venus.com.au/products/ebony-blindfold)

CRANK THE SPANK!

Bare bottoms are just asking to be spanked… but it is important that neither of you swing too hard your first time at the bat!. You want to ease into it. Start with a gently open hand, which will offer more sensations and feel more intimate. “For most recipients, the lower inner quadrant of the buttocks is the sweet spot—it shares a nerve group with the genitals.” Start very slowly with light smacks that just barely sting and build gradually. His breathing should be smooth and his butt should be pushing upwards toward the spankers hand, not away. If you have done a few hand-spankings and all has gone well, you can move on to a small leather paddle from Salon De Venus  - these can sting a little but don’t raise bruises or welts.


I reccomend the Round Paddle by S(A)X Femme! Easy to aim, makes a lovely slap and won't break your lovers backside!
(http://www.salon-de-venus.com.au/products/round-paddle

RESTRAIN YOURSELVES!

After a little spanking, tie the knot, so to speak. Some people enjoy being tied up so they can feel controlled – some enjoy being teased and denied. Start by loosely tying his wrists and maybe even his ankles with something that is soft to the skin. Fleece-lined wrist cuffs, bondage tape, over-the-door suspension cuffs, or under-the-bed restraints are all readily available on line or at your local adult store. Once you have explored tying or being tied up, you might dabble in spreader bars and other bondage equipment that allows you to both restrain and raunchily position in a way that gives you unfettered access as well!



For a simple, sexy and effective way of restraining your lover, a pair of Salon De Venus' Plus Fur Lined Wrist & Ankle Cuffs are the way to go. They'll make restraining a snap and leave your partner in comfort so you can get down to business!
(http://www.salon-de-venus.com.au/products/wrist-plush-fur-lined-cuffs)
(http://www.salon-de-venus.com.au/collections/bondage/products/ankle-plush-fur-lined-cuffs)

PUT ON AN ACT!

Role playing is another great kink-starter - it’s much easier to lose your inhibitions when you’re pretending to be someone else and this can be a gateway into sex play you might not otherwise try.  You can start simple, arranging to meet your partner at a night club you have never been to or in clothes you have never seen each other in. You can start with flirting, play hard to get, and let your imagination take over. This is great to get out some fantasies or remember the feeling of meeting your partner for the first time. Once you feel like you have a good grasp on the role playing concept, you can start taking on more dominant and submissive parts. . The classic is the master/slave scenario, in which one partner surrenders free will to the other.  In fact most of your most popular bedroom fantasies already have a dominant/submissive element to them – think student/teacher, nurse/patient, manager/secretary... The possibilities are endless!

LOOK THE PART!

This is possibly my favorite bit – dress it up – leather, lace, PVC, latex – sleek and sexy and fierce is what you are aiming for – and oh my goodness wont you just take on that role all the more once you look the part.  You’ve already come to the right place – Salon De Venus can absolutely help you out with the perfect outfit to get you started – have a SENSATIONAL time ladies and gentleman – and most of all  - have FUN!

Although there's so much to choose from, I must insist you browse Salon De Venus' lingerie range to find something flirtatious and jaw-dropping!

(http://www.salon-de-venus.com.au/collections/lingerie)

About the Author:

Mistress Jane, after many years learning and practicing on the fringe, working for some of this country’s most elite escort agencies, and with training from some of the Masters of the BDSM community, knows what men and women are looking for and what will keep them coming back for more.

The self-confessed Kink-nerd and now brings her wealth of knowledge to you, be you curious, experimental or just looking for new ways to spice things up in the bedroom – Her workshops are available Australia wide – be it at your private venue or one of her public performances – for details on how to learn more from Mistress Jane in the flesh go to www.facebook.com/tamedbyjane or email me at tamedbyjane@outlook.com!

Xox,

Mistress Jane.


1 Comment

Vanderson
Vanderson

May 26, 2015

I’ve been struggling with how I’ve felt for years now, and what you desicrbe totally fits me. I’m chastised all the time by my friends and family because I go out of my way to please people and it often leaves me hurt and confused. I want to know more, any tips? Thank you x

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